my sister loved you all. this is her brother who talked with with my wife who she loved throughout her illness and our conversations were about the magnificent and unique individuals you all were in her life iam crying through tears because i wish ellen and her wisdom and honesty were still with us. She was my girl. Never any bullshit. Just to the point with the best interest of those who needed a break in mind. Go to where the need is was her words to live by, be at peace my baby sister. Big brother Howard K.